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Monday, November 30, 2009

Take An "Ol Pal" Fishing







(An "Old Pal")

“Take an ol’ pal fishing”

by Mark Stephens

“Take an ol’ pal fishing”, this one of those expressions from simpler times that brings up visions of cane poles, row boats, bobbers and pan fish. If you think about it, there was nothing simpler about those times and yet, they were actually more difficult. Our modern day technology and conveniences have definitely made life simpler. It’s the Time we seem to struggle with in our modern life. We don’t always make time for those things that are truly important to us.

Well… I’m slowly learning to do so. I’m making time to “Take an ol’ pal fishing” especially when my ol’ (ok… Old) pal is my 82 year old father. Now, fishing with my Dad is nothing new for me, he has been an avid fisherman for as long as I can remember. In fact, some of my earliest childhood memories are of fishing with him in our 14 foot Starcraft Runabout with the 20 hp Merc engine. But, as I aged my interests shifted (Girls, College, Work, Marriage, Kids… more Work) and our fishing excursions became less and less. It was probably my kids that got me back into the boat with Grandpa and I’m really glad they did. Ironically, at ages 17 & 19 they’ve been suspiciously absent form the boat due to interest shifts for them as well (X-Box360, Girls, College…Avoiding Work!). So now we’re back to the two of us in the boat and it honestly has become a very enjoyable time. Fishing not only provides an opportunity to discuss and learn fishing strategies, baits and riggings but it allows you time to reconnect and really get to know people.

Now….. Don’t get the impression that I’m scoring brownie points by making the day of some feeble old man by taking him fishing. Dad has a whole host of friends he fishes with, like last week when he pimped me for an opportunity to go out with one of those pro’s that have been on T.V. They went for Muskie but that’s a different story. Even at 82 he will occasionally take his boat down to the Grand River to fish for Steelhead by himself. In fact, “who’s taking who” is debatable. In the summer, I’ll take him and his friends out Salmon fishing in Lake Michigan in my 23 footer. We’ll hit the inland lakes and rivers in his 16 foot Lund. Here’s a couple of Steelhead we picked up with his boat the weekend before Thanksgiving. They weighed in at 10.5 and 6.5 lbs.



(The "Ol' Pale's" son)


Remember, the holidays are the time for family and friends and there is no better way to reconnect than enjoying hobbies or pastimes with each other so make some time and invite one of your older friends or relatives out fishing or hunting. Your only regret will be that you haven’t done more of it.



Note from the editor: Thanks so much Mark for sharing this story with us. I am sure we can all relate in a similar way with someone we know. There are so many things with can learn from an "Ol Pal" that only their experiences can offer and the joy we bring as companionship to an older person can be priceless in return.


(misc granparents and grand child - time well spent)

Friday, November 27, 2009

Kids Need Nature



Experience and explore the great outdoors with your child 

— it's good for them!


By Sherri Russell


Whether you grew up in a suburb, on a farm, or in a big city, you probably spent a lot of time playing outside, getting dirty, and coming home happy. Maybe you watched ants making anthills in your backyard, climbed trees in the park, or simply lay in the grass contemplating the drifting clouds. Unfortunately, young children today do not have as many direct experiences with nature, and it's taking a toll.

Playing outside is good for kids.  It sparks their imagination.  Little Danny is one kid who truly LOVES the outdoors.  In fact he loves the outdoors so much that he is obsessed with the idea of playing outdoors, having camp fires, fishing and exploring.  Danny lives in Eastern Michigan in a residential area where access to nature is limited and camp fires are prohibited by local ordinances.  Danny’s parents remember how they used to play, and because of this reason, they often plan trips to Hess Lake Rentals in Newaygo Michigan to give Danny and his brothers the opportunity to get outside and have camp fires, explore and fish to provide the similar childhood experiences for their kids as they once had. 

Each time Danny discovers that he is going to come back to Hess Lake Rentals in Newaygo Mi for a weekend, he gets overwhelmed with excitement and immediately starts collecting as much paper products as possible to prepare for a camp fire.  This very special boy absolutely loves to build camp fires and will spend hours upon hours collecting all the sticks and debris in the yard and local woods to burn, he likes to watch the fire flames dance around.  If he is not working on a fabulous fire, Danny is usually fishing hard for catfish or carp and he likes to use corn or worms as bait.

Research suggests that a connection to nature is biologically innate; as humans, we have an affinity for the natural world. When children spend most of their time indoors, they miss out. Problems associated with alienation from nature include familiar maladies: depression, obesity, and attention deficit disorder. Kids who have direct access to nature are better learners. Exposure to nature has been shown to reduce stress and increase attention spans.

When a child is out in nature, all the senses get activated. He is immersed in something bigger than himself, rather than focusing narrowly on one thing, such as a computer screen. He's seeing, hearing, touching, even tasting. Out in nature, a child's brain has the chance to rejuvenate, so the next time he has to focus and pay attention, perhaps in school, he'll do better.

But even if kids don't have any of the specific problems mentioned above, kids who don't get out much lack the sense of wonder that only nature can provide.

The best thing any parent can do is to be enthusiastic about nature themselves.  Nature is good for everyone's mental health. Nature isn't the problem; it's the solution.

In the case of little Danny, his parents told me that being out in nature has helped him tremendously in regards to personal and mental growth.

A She’s So Fly Fly Fishing Travel Destination Spot Light - Canada Steelhead and Trout




There is little doubt that Western Canada, especially the provinces of British Columbia and Alberta, are some of the best bargains in the fly fishing travel world, and offers some of the finest trout and steelhead fishing on the North American continent.


The air is clear, the skies are bluer than can be imagined and the waters team with trout and steelhead. The U.S. dollar is strong and goes a long way towards the purchase of a first-class outdoor experience that is fast disappearing in other places.


Sparsely populated British Columbia and Alberta are surprisingly easy to get to from the lower 48, as well as economical and The Fly Shop is fortunate to represent the very best of the wilderness destinations in the two provinces.


The lodges and outfitters that we have assembled in British Columbia and Alberta are some of the finest in the angling world. They represent a broad spectrum of angling opportunities from classic steelhead fly-fishing to stalking native rainbows slurping dries on a clear mountain stream. All of the lodges are family operated and owned and offer intimate angling experiences with very limited rod space during the short, condensed Canadian summer. Common to all our outfitters is a genuine concern that each angler's dreams are realized; total commitment to meeting and/or exceeding their trip expectations.


Canada manages wilderness differently than its North American neighbors. The progressive stewards of their tens of millions of acres of provincial and federal wild lands have analyzed each river and stream, every wilderness area, both provincial and federal parks and forests. Then they limit the number of commercial outfitters, guides, lodges, fishing and hunting licenses and guided hunters and fishers.


What that meant to people like the Stewart and Hodson Families on the Dean River, the Harringtons on the Blackwater or Collingwood Family in Spatsizi Plateau Wilderness Park was that after decades of work (and generations of guiding and outfitting) they were allocated a permanent number of guide days on their respective waterways and/or territories.


What that means to fly fishermen headed to those lodges and camps is that when they arrive they’re insured the quality experience that they came so far to enjoy. And when they finish their coffee in the morning after a hearty breakfast and head off to their favorite pools or runs, it’s very unlikely that they will be sharing the water with anyone.


In addition to setting aside huge tracks of land and limiting access and use, wilderness managers in Canada classify unique and extraordinary waterways, (river and streams considered to be the finest of their kind in the province and perhaps the world) in effort to keep them wild and pristine. A Class 1 designation of specific water translates into the finest fishery resource of its kind in the entire province.


I invite you to browse through the Canadian fly fishing outfitters that The Fly Shop has assembled over the last 30 years.  The Fly Shop is a great resource for fly fishing travel destinations...read more...

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Why is Blogging so popular?


Why is Blogging so popular?

The Popularity of Blogging is growing day by day. More and more people are starting their own blogs - be it a personal or professional blog. Why blogging is so popular? What is there in blogging that drives so many people crazy? Let us take a look at some probable reasons.

1. Blogging is easy to start and maintain. On the Internet, you can choose from a variety of choices to use with and input into your blog sites. Blogging software and blogging services are already available. Even those who do not know how to blog can start blogging by just following the instructions posted on blog sites.

2. Blogs are very very interactive. Upon posting, your articles are immediately posted and ready for viewing. These blogs do not have the number of words needed and the moderation found in articles or forums. They also cannot be deleted without notice. There is freedom in blogs that you cannot find anywhere else. Posts are accepted whatever the topic or content is.

3. Freedom to express your feelings. Where else can you get personal points being pointed out and elaborated? Only in blogs. You can words and sayings not usually written on any other sources. If you want to express yourself in something that many people can read, then do blogging.

4. Blogs are search engine friendly. Search engines love blogs because of their regularly updated content. It loves reading and ranking them on their pages. This is because of the continuous update that bloggers are doing with their blogs. It is a fact that search engines are always on the lookout for fresh and new contents and blogs are the solution they have been looking for.

5. You can learn a lot from blogs. A lot of blogs are both educational and informative. Usually a simple search makes up a lot of choices to choose from. Many opinions about different topics are also being posted as commentaries. This gives the readers a look at the different points of view that people have.

6. Blogs are cost-effective. The absence of lists to maintain eliminates server costs to be incurred. The blogging services and software available are also priced reasonably so you are getting good value for your money. If you do a quick computation, you will notice that the expenses you get to pay every month will just be minimal.

7. Blogging is fun and for everyone. Blogs have in them entertainment aspects that is unsurpassed by any other. You get to read people agreeing and opposing to the same topic on their posts. These discussions can turn very emotional too. With blogs, you will never get bored!

So, got the point?. Why don't you start your own blog?

Author; Scott Main, Monday, 13 October 2008

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Michigan Out of Doors TV on the Pere Marquette River - with Grace, the fly fishing dog



View this weeks episode of Michigan Out of Doors TV and see "Gracie", the fly fishing dog  with Sherri Russell of She's So Fly and Mike Marsh of Marsh Ridge River Guide Service.


                      



We all have so much to be thankful for. This Thanksgiving, as you're gobbling up goodies with your friends and family don’t forget to count your blessings.

Have a wonderful holiday!

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Fact or Fiction - By Grace of She's So Fly


(The famous Angler Mona Lisa of Grace)

Fact or Fiction 
  1. The average American youth watches television 1500 hours per year.
  2. Fish are warm blooded.
  3. The recommended fly rod for trout fishing is a 9 weight.
  4. Salmon are a member of the trout family.
  5. Snapping turtles can live up to 100 years old.
  6. A Sturgen fish can can live up to 100 years old.
  7. A praying mantis is one of many insects that can turn it's head.
  8. The tarpon is the only fish with an air bladder.

Monday, November 23, 2009

The Golden Girls Fishing Trip – The Big One That Couldn’t Get Away


By Norma

The weather was beautiful in Michigan, late June 2009.  My cousin Sandy, my friend Beverly and I were on a road trip heading to Hess Lake, in Newaygo Michigan, to enjoy four days of fishing and relaxation. 



Beverly was a "greenhorn" when it came to fishing and she had shyly purchased her first adult fishing pole. I had given her one of my Dad's old tackle boxes and filled it full of basic necessary items for fishing. My cousin Sandy said that she was set, she brought along her old trusty fishing pole that hadn't been used in decades. 




Once we arrived and unpacked our gear, I went to the bait store to purchase a variety of bait before our first fishing excursion, and of course, Sandy and Beverly had come along too. Everyone in the store could hear Beverly in the background mumbling loudly, "Ewww, that's nasty!" while looking at the bait. I quickly purchased bait, got Beverly out of the store, and we all headed back to our rental house on Hess Lake. I then gathered our purchased bait and headed inside. Beverly was watching me unpack the bait and says, "You really aren't going to put those worm containers in the refrigerator, are you?!!!!" "Well, of course I am, I have to keep them at the right temperature," I replied. In the mean time, my cousin Sandy is standing near us laughing out loud. Sandy and I had grown up around the farm when we were kids, and it had been close to 45 years ago since we had last fished together, or for that matter, we really hadn't seen much of each other in all those years. When we were young back then, we had been two cousins that what one of us didn't think of, the other did for that matter.


I had come to Hess Lake to fish, and fishing is what I was going to do. We gathered up our fishing tackle and headed for a small pontoon boat we rented named Gertrude. Sandy had packed up some snacks to take along on the boat. She was always the practical one. Beverly was side tracked worrying about whether she had the right clothes along for the boat ride and I was concerned more with where the fish might be on this sunny warm, breezy afternoon. We also realized that we needed a way to determine where the good holes were in this lake because it is shallow.  So we borrowed a 10 foot plumping pvc pole from a neighbor.  I put Beverly in the front of the boat in charge of the pole because she was the tallest and new how to swim if she fell in while searching for holes.



After gathering up all of our things and the pole, we headed out to the lake and began surveying the color of the choppy water, I decided on a spot to stop and fish and Beverly checked for deeper holes with the pole, we looked like Mississippi mud finders. Sandy slowly let down one anchor and Beverly dropped the other, “splash”. I figured beginner's luck would prevail. And, actually, I was hoping it would. I thought if Beverly had good luck fishing she might just develop a lasting interest in fishing, and have a good trip. She did enjoy riding on the pontoon.



(Norma and Beverly)

After rigging up our poles, and each taking our respective places on the pontoon, we threw out our lines. I hollered out some instructions as how to watch the lines so they wouldn't get tangled with each other's lines. Beverly suddenly yells, "Get the net, I think I got a big one!" I secured my pole, Sandy laid her's down, and we both ran to the end of the boat where Beverly held her proud bent fishing pole. "I seen a bass jumping way over there by the weeds, I think I might have got that one," says Beverly in an exciting voice. She hands out her fishing pole to me and says, "You take it!" "Just reel slowly, and hold up the tip. Don't give 'em any slack! And whatever you do, don't let that fish get under the boat," I said loudly. "No, you take it!", Beverly hollered back to me once more, so I did. In the mean time, Sandy had grabbed the net and was leaning over the pontoon like there was a gigantic event coming. The pole was bent in my hand and felt like it could have been a small whale that had somehow made its way to Hess Lake.

I began to watch the bobbing of the pole as it pulled the line from under the boat and tugged every so often. I noticed every time the choppy water rocked the boat, so did the pole in my hand. Suddenly, Sandy looks at me, and I at Sandy...

"Should I pull up the anchor?" asks Sandy.  "Might as well," I answered. 

Sure enough, Bev hooked herself a fine anchor. However, there was a six inch catfish that had circled itself about 100 times around the anchor rope. We laughed until we were in tears.


 


By the third day, Beverly was out early morning fishing on the dock before Sandy and I had drank our coffee. I looked over and saw Beverly wearing a special fishing shirt she had purchased without me knowing the day before at the bait store. Sandy chuckled loudly as she looked over and saw Beverly fishing all by herself and displaying her proud fishing shirt with all the printed decals.

Sometimes we did more laughing than fishing on our trip, and that was just fine with me. Three good friends had an enjoyable time at Hess Lake, and fish stories to tell, and memories to keep for a lifetime.

Fishing can open up many doors, in our case rekindling friendships.

Norma, Beverly, and Sandy.




(Sandy at the Hess Lake cottage rental)



Note from the editor:  Norma, Beverly and Sandy were guests at one of my lake front cottages on Hess Lake in Newaygo Michigan.  They were truely a joy to have as guests.  In fact, I so admired Beverly's increasing interest in fishing after watching her from a far and listening to the girls constant laughter and stories, that it re-sparked my interest in fishing this past year.  Thank you girls for giving me that wonderful gift.  I will truly be indebted to you forever!  You girls represent the simple pleasures in life so well.




Fly Fishing Guide Book - Recommended by She's So Fly








If you're interested in fly fishing, here's a resource you won't want to be without…

"Introducing an Amazing New Guide to Learning the Art & Craft of Fly Fishing, and Catching the Big Ones that All Anglers Dream About!"

Dear Angler,

Not everyone is cut out to be a fly fisherman. It's not like bait casting or spin fishing. When you pick up a fly rod for the first time, you become a different person. You contract "Fly Fishing Fever," and your only hope is continual therapy and treatment.

Your life will never be the same.

You'll spend hours perfecting your cast while visions of rising Rainbow Trout, Largemouth Bass, and Pacific Salmon dance through your head.

Your conversations will start to include terms like dry flies, nymphing, Maribou Mickeys and Woolly Buggers.

You'll plan your vacations based on proximity to misty lakes and mountain streams.

And perhaps strangest of all, you'll start to study insects and think like a fish.

But don't worry; you're not alone. Millions of people all over the world suffer from this fascinating fever. And none of them are looking for a cure.

"The true fisherman approaches the first day of fishing season with all the sense of wonder and awe of a child approaching Christmas."
(Robert Traver)

If you've got-or want-this fever, here's something you need to know: fly fishing is more of an art than a science, but it's one that anyone can master. All you need is burning desire and detailed instruction. You supply the former, and "The Fly Fishing Guidebook" provides the latter.

"The Fly Fishing Guidebook" supplies all the basic information needed by the beginner, as well as useful tips and resources for the more experienced fly fisherman. Here are just a few of the topics covered in detail by this amazing book:

• Fresh Water & Salt Water Fishing

• How To Build Your Own Fly Fishing Rod

• Organizing a Fly Box

• Designing and Building Leaders

• Choosing the Right Flies

• Fly Fishing Hooks

• Choosing the Right Equipment

• Fly Fishing Rods

• Fly Fishing Reels

• Reel Cases

• Fly Fishing Lines

• Fly Fishing Leaders

• Fly Fishing Clothing

• Fly Fishing Accessories

• Fly Fishing Basics

• Casting Instructions

• Boats and Floatation Equipment

• Fly Tying

• The Types and Descriptions of Flies

• Tying Materials

• Fly Tying Patterns

• Common Fishing Knots

• Planning Your Fly Fishing Trip

As you can see, "The Fly Fishing Guidebook" covers every aspect of this exciting sport. It explains the basic techniques so that anyone can understand them. But it goes beyond that and shares the subtle tricks and mystical elements that fly fishermen have enjoyed for hundreds of years.

Here are some of the secrets it reveals:

• How to use the "60/20/20" principle to create leaders that mimic flies.

• The most crucial piece of equipment and how to select it.

• Why barbless hooks are sometimes the best option for big fish.

• The four basic types of rod and which ones are best for action, flexibility, strength and value.

• The most important feature of the fly reel and how to use it.

• One of the quickest and easiest ways to spot fish (it's not a fish finder!)

• How to land that monster fish when it strikes.

• The most common casting mistakes and how to avoid them.

• The best way for beginners to catch trout.

• Ways to repel bugs, stay warm, and be safe.

• The benefits of belts & organizers, chemicals & dressings, clippers & nippers.

• And much, much more!!

"Calling fly fishing a hobby is like calling brain surgery a job."
(Paul Schullery)

And it's yours for only $29.95



Sunday, November 22, 2009

Accentuate the Positive - Take Time Out to Be Thankful


Accentuate the Positive - Take Time Out to Be Thankful

I am thankful for many things...

1. My son's health and good manners.
2. My opportunities to fish with so many great fishing guides.
3. My great friends and family and She's So Fly followers
4. My job(s)
5. The doors that have opened up for me through fly fishing.
6. My health
7. The knowledge that I have received through good and bad  times.
8. My values that my grandmother instilled in me.
9. My ability to face what life throws at me.
10. The beauty of our Earth.

What are you thankful for this year?







I will be eating TG turkey dinner at my fathers house as I do traditionaly every year - here a photo (below) of us girls in the kitchen a few years past - sent in by my father...thanks Dad! (...now you know where I get my photo skills from...lol)


(Stepmother, Carol and Sherri (Me) and  my stepsister, Kim)


Happy Thanksgiving from our “She’s So Fly” Flock (left to right)

Brent Vanderstelt, Director of Social Media


Kyle Russell, Professor Caddis Tippet, Brain Teaser, Jr. Coordinator


Sherri Russell, Senior Publisher and Editor


World's Largets Ice Fishing Competition



Fisherman gather on frozen Gull Lake for the Brainerd Jaycees Ice Fishing Extravaganza fishing tournament January 23, 2010 in Brainerd, Minnesota.

The tournament, billed as the world's largest ice fishing competition, attracted over 10,000 participants who competed for 150,000 in prizes. Minnesotans love their winter ice fishing. The Brainerd Jaycees say that 20,000 holes are drilled in the ice for their annual three-hour contest.

This year is their 20th year Anniversary.

Visit http://www.icefishing.org/index.cfm for more information


My Fly Fishing Trip with She's So Fly


(Rycki practicing to cast with "chuck and duck" fly casting method)

By Rycki (beginner fly fisherwoman)


While traveling Western Michigan, I was kayaking with a friend and happened to stop in Baldwin Michigan to eat dinner. While we were in town, we met a professional river guide, named Mike Marsh from Marsh Ridge River Guide Service.  We were search for a place to camp for the night before we headed off to toward the next town to explore and kayak again.  Mike so graciously gave us advise about the area and helped us find a camp site.  Since then, I have became friends with Mike and developed an interest to learn to fly fish.  He was always talking about his trips and experiences with his clients and it sounded like so much fun. He also told me that he has been giving Sherri Russell from She’s So Fly, private fly fishing lessons and that Sherri was a novis fly fisherwoman that truly became a maniac with the sport of fly fishing after all her personal experiences.  This interested me even more so, because if Sherri Russell could do it, so could I.  Then Mike spoke to Sherri and she suggested that they both take me out on a fly fishing trip and I agreed to do so.

Mike, Sherri and I began to plan our trip. Sherri resides in Newaygo Michigan and manages lake front cottage rentals, so we thought it might be easiest to fish the local Muskegon River and stay overnight and rent in one of the cottages with a hot tub. This was also a central location for Mike and I to meet because I live in Lansing and Mike lives in Holland Michigan.


(Fly fishermen out on the Muskgeon River)

The day arrived and we all met up at a public launch just below Croton Dam. For those of you who have never seen Croton Dam, it is a sight to see. It is one of two historic hydrolic dams in Michigan. Mike launched the boat into the river, gathered our gear and Sherri and I hopped into the boat with Mike. As an additional bonus for my trip, Mike brought along his fly fishing dog, Grace. Grace is a very unique dog and a sweetie! She sure knows the ropes of the boat and appeared to be excited to be out on the river.


(Historical Croton Dam - in Newaygo Michigan)

We were on the search for Steelhead. Mike and Sherri showed me how to handle the rods and reels and taught me how to “chuck and duck”, which is apparently only one way to fly fish and he told me there were many more, but this was the one we were going to practice that day. After a few casts, Mike told me that I was a natural and I was ready to fish on my own. He showed me what to look for in the river to indicate fish population etc..apparently there are what is called “seems” in the water which are stripe of bubbles and ripples and flat area in between them – and I wanted to cast my line into the flat areas in between the bubbled strips in search for fish.


(Mike teaching Ricki how to fly fish)

We tried several areas with no luck for steelhead (sometimes you find them and sometimes you don't). So then he switched fly patterns on my pole and I began to fish for trout. I caught one trout and I was very excited.


(Rycki with her trout caught by fly fishing)

Sherri was very accommodating and very helpful with answering questions about fly fishing in a way that a beginner would understand. It was very important to her that my experience be a good one. She strongly encourages women to get into this sport and promotes it a lot - I was surprised to learn all the the things to do with fishing that she is involved in and never knew such a girly girl to personaly like the outdoors and fishing as she does.  Mike and Sherri sure made my first fly fishing experience a lot of fun.

Thank you Mike and Sherri for my great experience. I want to fly fish again. I truly love the outdoors and kayaking and now possibly fly fishing from my kayak…lol.

note from the editor:  Thank you Ricki for taking the time to report and share your story with our readers...I really enjoyed fishing with you, and Mike was right, you are a "natural".

Are Pets Good For Us? - A Canine Special Report From She's So Fly


(She's So Fly editor, Sherri Russell and her favorite fly fishing companion, Grace)

There's no doubt that Americans love their pets. A new survey by the American Veterinary Medical Association (AVMA) shows that more than 57 percent of U.S. households own one or more animals. But can having pets actually provide health benefits? Yes, say experts, as long as you're not allergic to animals or terrified of them. "Pet ownership is good for your health both physically and psychologically," says Connecticut psychologist Herbert Nieburg, author of "Pet Loss: A Thoughtful Guide for Adults and Children" (HarperCollins).


Sure, pets provide companionship and unconditional love. But research has shown that they can also help reduce stress and blood pressure in owners, increase longevity in those who've had heart attacks, and even relax and improve the appetites of Alzheimer's patients. "Any disease condition that has a stress-related component to it, we believe pets could ameliorate stress and moderate the situation," says biologist Erika Friedmann, a professor at the University of Maryland School of Nursing. "It's providing a focus of attention that's outside of someone's self. They're actually letting you focus on them rather than focusing inward on yourself all the time."




Many four-legged pets, especially dogs, can also get owners off the couch. "They're there to greet you when you come home at the end of the day, and they're ready for some play and attention," says veterinarian Scott Line, associate editor of the "Merck/Merial Manual for Pet Health." "They need to exercise, so it propels people out the door." These walks also force pet owners to socialize instead of sitting around feeling sorry for themselves, which can help improve their mood. "It gives people a routine, a thing to do. You have to get up and take care of the dog. You can't lie in bed all day," says Friedmann.





I could write pages about the strengths of owning pets and why they are good for us. I could advise why so many people prefer the companionship of a pet rather than another member of the human race or how a pet can replace a deceased loved one. But I'm not going to, I am going to tell you a little about one very special dog and her owner that I have had the privelidge to meet through the sport of fly fishing.


Mike Marsh, along with his best friend, Grace, own and operate a fly fishing guide service called Marsh Ridge Guide Service in Western Michigan.


Grace is a 7 pound, female miniture daschund. She's a dascund that is obsessed with the sport of fly fishing. She even dresses for the occasion, sporting a special taylored fly fishing vest.




Mike and Grace have been guiding clients to fish in the lakes, rivers and streams for nine years. She knows which side to stand on the boat. She is not afraid to look over the edge of the boat into the water to scout for fish.


She has learned to watch an indicator and knows what it means when it goes under water – fish on! She loves being outside in the fresh air and is truly interested in fish.




Many of Mike’s clients reserve fly fishing trips simply for the experience to fish along with Grace, uncluding myself. I love Grace, she is truly an amazing dog! She has made a lasting impression on my fly fishing experiences and some fond memories that I will always cherish.




In conclusion, animals have helped us search for our basic needs and have been the defenders of our dwelling and children. They have fixed themselves in our hearts and in our homes. Come to think of it, have you ever wondered the actual reason why there are so many of us who live with their pets? In short, pets are good for us.



Friday, November 20, 2009

10 personality traits people are hated for



(get rid of your "big head" and be respectful to others - treat people as you would like to be treated - even though we may look different and act different - we all have feelings and some can hurt as a result of the actions from others - try to think first before acting)

I think of myself as a fairly pleasant person who is kind of laid back and likes most people. I have been teaching my son, which is an ongoing process, about potentially harmful traits. As children we all learn our personality from the feedback we get from those around us, if we lie and get a lot of attention for it we will continue to lie. If we are rude and get a reputation for it we will continue to be rude.

We all have different personality types and traits.  Some are more liked than others.




I have looked at some traits that I dislike in other people and hopefully am teaching my son to avoid. I think if people could rid themselves of the following traits the World might be a better place.





The ten most hated traits

Arrogance #1 (Meaning = unpleasantly proud and behaving as if you are more important than, or know more than, other people).


Arrogant people think that they are always right, they think that they know the best answers to all life problems and they think that they are better than most of the ordinary people.  We’ve all come across people like this.


Rudeness #2 – (Meaning = not polite; offensive or embarrassing).   


Being rude is a classic display of a lack of class.  When I think of people who are rude I tend to think of shop sales assistants.  It’s especially annoying when someone is serving you and they are talking to their friend about what happened last night.  Try not to let the impudence, thoughtlessness or sheer bad manners of a rude person weigh you down.


Domineering #3 – (Meaning = inclined to rule arbitrarily or despotically; overbearing; tyrannical: domineering parents).


People who try to control others are not a good trait at all.  Again this can often be seen in the office and at home. It is a form of abuse and can be hard to spot sometimes. Of course some people like to be dominated (stop that!!) but that is a choice, which is different altogether.


Dishonesty #4 – (Meaning = not honest).


The trait that I abhor the most in people!  Everybody lies whether it be a white lie or a big ‘honestly I didn’t kill him’ lie. However when someone lies constantly it is very irritating and annoying especially after you have pointed out that you know they are lying and they continue with it. I am teaching my son that honesty is always always, always the best way even if it feels difficult. If you are honest all the time it will lead to people trusting you more and valuing your opinion more.


Temperamental #5 – (Meaning = describes someone whose mood tends to change very suddenly).


Sorry ladies, but I have found the most temperamental people tend to be female, especially if you’ve ever worked in an office. I don’t know if it’s the office air or sick building syndrome but people change as soon as they enter their office of work. I have seen me standing chatting to someone outside and then when I see them again in the office their eyes have turned blood red, little horns have sprouted from their heads and they talk like they’ve just smoked 100 cigarettes “ what the F%*& are you talking to me for”, at that point I’m out of there.


Conceited #6 – (Meaning = Holding a high opinion of yourself).


Much like arrogance, and just as annoying. It great to have a good opinion of yourself but when it is displayed to others in a manner as to make others feel small it can be very unpleasant.


Unreliable #7 – (Meaning = cannot be relied or depended upon).


Another trait that can extremely annoying. Again we’ve all come across people like this at work, at school, at university, in fact every area of life. We also know, very quickly, not to rely on that person for anything. When reliability is not there we tend to think they have other traits related to this such as lazy, disorganized, selfish etc.


Dependent #8 – (Meaning = relying on someone or something else for aid, support, etc).


I am talking here about people who are overly dependent especially in relationships. There is no bigger turn off for a person than the man or woman who seems to depend on your relationship to survive.


Pessimism #9 – (Meaning = the tendency to see, anticipate, or emphasize only bad or undesirable outcomes, results, conditions, problems, etc).


How to lose friends quickly = be pessimistic all the time. It’s quite funny when you get the grumpy guy in the office who moans about everything but deep down you know he likes the world. However when you get the person who moans about their job, their house, their life, their children, the world and are serious about it– how quickly do you run away from them? It can be very draining being around people like this they literally sap your energy.


Condescending #10 (Meaning = showing or implying a usually patronizing descent from dignity or superiority). 




This is another trait which riles me. Of course this is open to interpretation in many cases. On a few occasions I have asked people if they are meaning to sound condescending and often they are embarrassed and explain that it was not their intention, so it can be a tricky one.   

Conclusion Do you recognize yourself in the list above? If you do it is easy to rid yourself of these traits. The main trick is to recognize it when it happens. As soon as you recognize you can change you. For the next few days be aware of how you interact with people around you, listen to your language, be aware of what you do when you are listening, and be aware of what you do when you are talking.
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Article source: http://www.stevenaitchison.co.uk/blog/2007/04/21/10-personality-traits-you-will-be-hated-for/






"WOW" Words of Wisdom - from She's So Fly


(Mount She's So Flymore)

“Anything is possible if you put your mind to it and you really work hard and you bring the right perspective to it. You shouldn't focus on why you can't do something, which is what most people do. You should focus on why perhaps you can, and be one of the exceptions.”


This is what I choose to do…so can you...

Tips On How To Care For Your Fly Fishing Gear After Fishing - from She's So Fly





What do you do with your wet fishing gear after a day of wading?  I always hang my waders on a hanger and place them in the garage or in my shower to dry completely and the same goes for my wading boots.  It is very important that your gear is completely dry before packing them away for the next trip to avoid mold and mildew growth.

I found the easiest method of storage to be using a large plastic storage tub.  You can purchase one for $5 to $10 dollars from Target, Walmart or any other large store in your home town.  Plastic tubs keep my gear organized and limits any rodent and insect invasions too.   Often, I get calls from fishing guides and friends the day before asking me if I can fish and I have a limited time to prepare.  By using a storage tub, I can be ready at any time to go and fish.  I simply just grab my tub full of gear and go!  I have items in my tub such as; 2 pairs of waders (in case one pair gets a leak), wading boots, rain suit, hats, gloves, toe and finger warmers, extra socks and vests.


I also have a fishing water proof back pack that I keep smaller supplies in such as; finger tape, camera, flies, string, disposable rain poncho, sunglasses, chap stick, flash light, dog treats for Grace (lol), water bottle, etc.

These are just a few simple suggestions to keep your fly fishing gear organized and readily available for your next fly fishing trip.  Please tell me what your storage suggestions are below in the comment section.


 (Muskegon River Peer, Newaygo Michigan)

I have a fishing trip planned for this coming Saturday with Grace on the Muskegon River for Winter Steelhead....wish me luck!


(GRACE - the fly fishing dog)

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Should Anglers Always Catch and Release? A "She's So Fly" Spot Light


(Sherri Russell, editor of She's So Fly)

Note from the Editor: "There seems to be a lot of controversy among She's So Fly followers on the topic of fish catch and release.   I personally support and practice the sport of catch and release in our rivers and streams because the fish travel upstream through these tributaries to spawn.  I realize that not every angler practices catch and release, and some like to keep and eat their catch.  

I can remember fishing for lake perch and bluegills as a young girl with my uncle and having a family fish fry after cleaning them.   I think the fish were more plenty back then and conservation awareness was limited, there was more government funding to re-stock fish in our lakes and rivers, gas prices were lower, jobs were plenty, life was basically carefree and good.  

Unfortunately, the world has been through many changes since 35 years ago when I was a young girl and with pollution, endangered species, etc....people need to be more aware and accountable for their actions to preserve and protect our natural resources for others to enjoy in the future.  For example, one female salmon fish caught full of eggs can wipe out an entire generation for future anglers to enjoy.


I have close friends that keep and eat their catch to this day and I am not going to stop being their friend just because we disagree, especially when they have been great friends to me for many years - that would be stupid and ignorant on my part.  I can only help educate them to limit their catch.


I personally know many professional fishing guides that do and don't let their clients keep fish from the rivers.  For some of the guides that don't, maybe should let some clients keep a single fish once in a while - and educate their clients on conservation and selective harvesting vs. letting that client go with another guide that does allow their clients to keep 2 or 3 fish each trip and teaching them nothing.  I also know that many Michigan great lake charters let their clients keep fish, but the fish are not spawning and keeping fish is more common practice in larger bodies of water, at least in the state of Michigan.


To those of you anglers who keep and eat your catch, I strongly encourage you to follow your local, state or country regulations as to size, limits and seasons for species etc and limit the amount of fish you keep - and put the smaller fish back.  I also strongly encourage anglers not to keep females which have not spawned yet - there are plenty of methods to successfully catch fish other than using spawn to do so.  

We all need to do our part to preserve our fish population for future generations of anglers.  

In conclusion, I found this article to be interesting and I thought I would share it with my readers"

Should fishermen always catch and release?
by Charles W. Bryant

Fly fishing is one of the recommended methods for a successful catch and release. See more pictures of fishing.

Ask any fisherman, and he'll tell you that there's nothing quite like the tug of a fish on the end of the line. Once you land your catch, there's a decision to make -- keep it or release it. Most times the decision is made for you. Rivers and lakes all over the world are managed by wildlife organizations governed by agencies like the U.S. Department of Interior. These groups spend a great deal of time studying fish populations in the lakes, rivers and oceans of the world. Based on the findings of these studies, limits are imposed on the number, size and species of fish that can be kept. There are also rules regulating where and when fishing is allowed to take place in a body of water or region. These rules change with the growth or decline of a particular species. It's called wildlife management, and it's an important part of ensuring that fish thrive in the future.

Fish populations are at risk though, according to some studies. One such study found that as many as four out of 10 freshwater species in North America are in danger of approaching extinction [source: Borenstein]. Much of the blame goes to water pollution and other damage to the natural habitat, but some of it can be placed on overfishing. Oceans are in even worse shape. Marine biologists in Nova Scotia believe that all saltwater fish and seafood species could collapse by the year 2048.

But the rules don't cover every species in every habitat. Many times the restrictions leave room for each angler to make a decision whether to catch and release or keep the fish for dinner. Is the practice of catch and release the environmentally responsible thing to do or are there occasions where keeping the fish can actually help the population thrive?

Catch and Release Fishing: Behind the Numbers

The use of a landing net can have a negative effect on the health of a fish.

Fishing is a huge industry. The 44 million Americans who consider themselves recreational anglers spend a whopping $41 billion each year on the sport. When you consider the additional economic activity that fishing generates, like gas to and from the site or food for the trip, just to name a couple, you're looking at roughly $116 billion in total revenue. That's a lot of money. If you only considered the economics of fishing, then catch and release makes a lot of sense. When fish are caught and released back into the habitat, they'll breed and spawn more fish that can potentially be caught and released.

The fishing industry is mostly self-supported as well. The agencies that oversee and regulate the sport are largely paid for by money generated from the sale of fishing permits. The concept of catch and release and fishing for sport in the United States is relatively new. While the United Kingdom has been using catch and release as a method of conservation for the past 100 years, Americans didn't catch on until the early 1950s, and even then it didn't gain in popularity until catch-and-release fishing tournaments were born in the early 1970s. Previous to this, anglers fished for one reason -- to put food on the table. And while recreational fishing is still a viable means of providing food, an increasing number of fishermen are in it for the sport.

So should you always catch and release? Not necessarily. It's acceptable to fish for your dinner as long as you abide by the limits imposed by the state agencies. A lot of research goes into the kinds of limits imposed, and the governing bodies have a good hold on what kinds of fishing practices are best for any given region. Limits are generally imposed on the size of the fish and the total number of fish you can take from a body of water. If you fish within these limits and during the allowed time frame, then you aren't doing anything to decimate the fish population. Low income families in some parts of the United States still depend on rivers and lakes to provide a portion of their food, so in these cases it's not so much sport fishing as a means of providing sustenance.

The argument for strictly catch-and-release practices is mainly built around conservation. In Florida, where fishing is extremely popular, about 50 percent of fish that are caught are released back into the water. This amounts to more than 70 million fish released each year. In Australia, 30 to 50 percent of the recreational catch is released each year for a total of about 47 million fish. If these fish and others caught worldwide were all kept, the fish population would be in even more trouble than it already is.

The National Park Service of the United States encourages 100 percent catch and release of native species. When non-native fish are introduced into the water from a practice known as stocking, they compete with the native species for food and space. The National Park Service no longer stocks its waters with non-natives, but they depend on catch and release to help maintain the native species. The key here is to keep non-native fish according to the region's limitations. If only non-native fish are kept, then the native varieties are allowed to thrive, and the population can be restored.

Catch and Release Mortality and Techniques

A circle hook stands a better chance at keeping the fish injury-free.

The practice of catch and release as a means of wildlife conservation has one catch -- ensuring that the released fish lives. Researchers have performed hundreds of controlled studies all over the world to determine which methods of hooking, landing, reeling the fish in and releasing are most likely to result in a healthy fish that can go on to reproduce. If improper techniques are used, and the released fish dies, then it defeats the purpose of releasing in the first place.

Studies on tarpon in Florida found that 26 out of 27 of the fish caught with a hook and line survived after they were released. The lone fish that died had been lifted from the water and photographed by the fishermen who caught it. Bonefish in the Florida Keys have a 95 percent survival rate upon release. Eighty-four percent of redfish in Georgia and 96 percent of redfish in Texas live after release. And in California, 95 percent of brown trout that are released survive. These numbers indicate that if an angler uses the proper technique for hooking, landing and releasing, then the fish has a great chance at surviving and ultimately reproducing.

So what's the proper technique? It starts before you even hook the fish. Using the proper tackle is key to the fish's survival, and it starts with the fishing line. A strong line is better because it helps to land the fish faster. Landing is simply the act of bringing a fish to land, or in some cases to a boat. A fast landing puts less physiological stress on the fish and helps its chances at survival. You can choose to fish with live bait or artificial bait -- man-made lures and flies with hooks attached. Fish caught with lures and flies have a higher survival rate than those caught with live bait because they're more likely to hook in the mouth area and not deeper into the body. There are also a few things to look for in the hook. First, it should be appropriately sized for the kind of fish you're trying to catch. There's also a choice to be made between J-hooks, circle hooks and barbed or barbless varieties.

J-hooks look like what you might think -- the letter 'J.' Circle hooks also look like a letter 'J,' but the bottom of the hook is a bit wider and the end of the 'J' curves back in toward the stem instead of extending straight up. The point of a circle hook is also curved even farther toward the stem. Studies show that circle hooks usually hook the fish by the jaw, the optimal place to hook a fish. This is what's known as a shallow hook. When the hook goes further into the body and attaches to the gills or internal organs, it's called a deep hook. Deep hooking often results in injury, so even though circle hooks are slightly more difficult to remove, they're recommended for catch and release.

Other tips for a successful fish release:

Decide beforehand that you're going to release and make the catch-and-release process speedy.

Don't remove the fish from the water. Or, if you do, limit its time out of the water to less than four minutes.

Remove the hook by hand or with needle-nose pliers instead of a de-hooking device.

Use barbless hooks or crimp the barbs with pliers to avoid tearing the fish's flesh.

Wet your hands or gloves before handling the fish to avoid removing the outer mucous membrane layer that protects the fish's skin.

Don't use a landing net.

Reintroduce the fish into the water headfirst.

Article source: http://adventure.howstuffworks.com/outdoor-activities/fishing/fish-conservation/responsible-fishing/catch-and-release.htm/printable

What is your opinion - should fishermen always catch and release?  We can agree to disagree - please post your comments below.

"She's So Fly" is Fly Fishing for Winter Steelhead on the Manistee River in Michigan






Fly Fishing for Winter Steelhead on the Manistee River in Michigan

The Manistee River runs approximately 232 miles through Michigan's northern lower peninsula, through the villages of Sharon, Smithville, Mesick, Wellston and enters Lake Michigan at Manistee. It is considered to be one of the best trout fisheries east of the Rockies. The river rises in the sand hills in southeastern Antrim County, on the border with Otsego County, about six miles southeast of the town of Alba. These deep glacial sands provide it with a remarkably stable flow of clean cold water year round, making it a popular river for fishing as well as canoeing. Over the course of its length, it drops in elevation from around 1300 feet to 582 feet, with an average stream gradient of about 2.9 feet per mile.




The Manistee River is one of the finest steelhead, salmon, and trout rivers in Michigan and the Great Lakes area. Known as the "Big Manistee," or just "The Big," because of its neighbor the Little Manistee, the Manistee is one of the most diverse fisheries in the country. A pre-imminent river for the migration of Lake Michigan steelhead and salmon, it is also a quality trout stream.

Steelhead and Salmon Fly Fishing

From Tippy Dam downstream to Lake Michigan the Manistee river is nationally reputable as a migratory fish angling Mecca. The spring and fall runs of Steelhead surpass most rivers in the nation. Fly fishing anglers from around the world visit the gravel bars near the dam and the national forest woodlands on either side of the river further downstream. In addition, the fall runs of Coho and Chinook Salmon give an angler chances at silver trains of 30 pounds or more.




This is where I fished for winter steelhead this past November. I learned a new method of fly fishing called Chuck and Duck. Chuck and Duck fly fishing is the most effective fly fishing method to catch salmon and steelhead on the manistee river.




Big Manistee; Tippy Dam to Lake Michigan

From the foot of Tippy Dam to the confluence with Manistee Lake, the lower Big Manistee River offers over 25 miles of world class fishing. Depending on what time of year you ply its cold clear waters you have the chance of finding more than a dozen species of game fish. The river’s best known for it’s fall and spring run of anadromous species such as Chinook Salmon, Brown and Lake Trout, and Little Manistee strain of Steelhead. One more bonus for the summer angler would be the decent run of Skamania (Summer Run Steelhead).

The first mile below Tippy Dam is a high gradient riffle area which is very conducive to the spawning of anadromous species as well as a few others such as Walleye and Suckers. Further downstream the river changes moods and becomes wider, slower and favors species more attuned to this type of water such as Bass, Pike, and even a couple Muskie.



While the entire stretch of river is accessible, within the lower parts access is quite a bit sparser; most anglers choose to access it via boat. Shallow drafting V-Bottom boats have little problem navigating the lower waters, however the unfamiliar boater should still keep eyes to the water as there’s a number of submerged hazards.



Walk in access is very good for the first couple miles below the dam, as well as at a number of access sites spread out down the river. Wading is at your own risk. While the current slows considerably the further downstream you get, you can still easily take a wrong step and “float your hat”.

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